DIY or Full-Service Wedding? Figuring Out What Actually Works for You

If you’re planning a wedding and asking yourself, “Should we do it all ourselves, or should we just hire someone?” — you're not alone. It’s one of the first big choices you'll make, and honestly, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer.

Some people thrive on spreadsheets and Pinterest boards. Others? Not so much. Let’s look at both sides so you can figure out what’s going to make your life easier — not harder.

Going DIY: Is It Worth It?

A lot of couples go the DIY route because of the budget. But also? Some people just like being hands-on. If you’re the type who enjoys crafting centrepieces or knows exactly what music you want playing at dinner, DIY might feel like a dream.

But keep this in mind — you're also the one chasing down the florist, wrangling RSVPs, and probably setting up tables the night before. It can be a lot.

Pros:

• You can save money — big one.

• You’ve got full control over everything.

• It feels super personal.

Cons:

• It eats up time. So. Much. Time.

• You’ll probably need a reliable crew of helpers.

• It can get overwhelming if you’re juggling work, life, and planning.

Full-Service Wedding: Let the Pros Handle It

Hiring a planner or choosing a full-service venue means you’re handing off the logistics to someone who’s done this a hundred times before. They know what works, how to fix issues fast, and they’ve got a solid team.

If the thought of managing 15 different vendors gives you stress hives, this route will probably save your sanity.

Pros:

• Way less stress for you.

• They know what they’re doing.

• Things usually run smoother with a pro behind the scenes.

Cons:

• Costs more (though sometimes worth every penny).

• You might feel a bit out of the loop.

• You’ll need to find someone who gets your style — not just anyone will do.

Some Couples Do a Bit of Both

Truth? Most people end up somewhere in the middle.

Maybe you plan the whole thing yourself but hire a coordinator for the day-of. Or maybe you use a full-service venue but add your own personal touches — like custom signage, handmade favours, or a playlist you built together.

Venues like The Sessions House are perfect for this kind of mix. They’ve got the bones — the beautiful, historic setting — but also let you put your own spin on things. You can go as DIY or hands-off as you like.

So, What’s Right for You?

Ask yourself:

• Do I have the time (and patience) to plan this myself?

• Am I on a tight budget?

• Do I want full creative control, or do I just want to enjoy the day?

• Who’s helping me, and how much can they really do?

Be honest — there’s no wrong answer here.

Final Thoughts

Weddings are personal. The way you plan one should be too. Whether you’re folding 100 napkins yourself or handing over the reins to someone else, it’s still your day. The key is to choose the path that gets you to the altar happy, not burned out.

If you're still unsure, maybe talk to a few venues or planners. Some offer flexible packages that help meet in the middle.

And hey, whatever route you choose — don’t forget to enjoy the ride.